Wife Complains To Internet That She Can No Longer See Her Husband's Abs

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    Font - Posted by u/Concerned_wife847 20 hours ago 2 3 AITA for finally confronting my husband about his unhealthy choices? Asshole I (28f) and my husband (30m) K, have been married for 2 years together for 5. It was made very clear at the beginning of our relationship that I care a lot about physical fitness. K and I have always been very fit people who regularly attend the gym and eat well so that has never been a problem.
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    Font - 5 months ago, my husband decided to go off of his anxiety meds. I know people typically gain weight while on certain medications but he (thankfully) never had that problem. However, since going off of his meds I've noticed he has been to the gym less and has been eating some junk food. Because of this he has gained a significant amount of weight. I tried to urge him to go to the gym more and cut out the junk food but he didn't nt take it well and would just kind of go silent and nod when
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    Font - A couple nights ago after dinner, K was getting (an unhealthy) snack after dinner. D noticed K eating a lot of snacks and told K that he needed to “chill" and cut down on the carbs. My husband got offended and said it was none of his brother's business what he ate and that gaining “10-15 pounds isn't a big deal". I tried to stay out of it but then K asked why I wasn't defending him. I finally broke. I gently said that honestly I agreed with D. And that my husbands weight gain was a proble
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    Font - rude so I got kind of offended to be honest that he was suddenly accusing me. I ended up losing my cool and saying I couldn't believe he didn't see the problem. His weight gain was causing me stress and making me not attracted to him anymore. He used to look amazing but now I can barely see his abs (which I know isn't a big deal to some people but to me it is). K started crying and told me to get out and I ended up sleeping in the guest room. He still won't talk to me. Aita for finally te
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    Font - stubblesmcgee · 1 day ago · edited 1 day ago O 2e 3 24 Partassipant [1] YTA This isn't about his health. 10-15 pounds ISNT a big deal healthwise, especially if he was fit before gaining the weight. This is 100% about his looks, so don't hide behind health. And yeah, his brother is an asshole too.
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    Font - Lt-shorts - 1 day ago Pooperintendant [64] So there's a lot to unpack Why did you encourage him to go off his medication. What was the drs opnion 10 Ibs over 5 moths isn't to bad People's bodies change as you get older And wow just caring about physical looks instead dof your husband's health and really figuring out why is shallow.
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    Font - makethatnoise - 20 hr. ago Asshole Enthusiast [5] YTA for considering gaining 10 pounds in 6 months "a big deal" IMO
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    Font - kha-ci - 20 hr. ago · edited 20 hr. ago Partassipant [1] YTA - you like fit people. Absolutely no issue with it but it's obvious your husband doesn't feel mentally well at all and you've been ignoring that for your own interest. You want him to make an effort for you when you don't even make an effort to help him. Did you even ask him what was wrong? How you could help? Did you talk to him about seeing someone? Did you ask him what was making him eat that much? Did you at least try to und
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    Font - Only_Oli - 20 hr. ago Partassipant [4] YTA for caring about his weight because YOU can't see his abs. grow up why did he stop taking meds? how has he managed his anxiety since then? 10-15lbs in 5 months isnt a lot btw
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    Font - Educational-Truth479 · 20 hr. ago Partassipant [1] YTA, solely for this comment: 'I would not have supported you getting of your meds if I knew this was going to happen.' You would seriously rather have him on medication in order for him to keep his appearance up to your standards rather then him gaining weight? There is no shame in admitting that you're attracted to a certain bodytype. We all have our preferences. However, you seem to be putting this before anything else which is very sh
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    Font - whatsmypassword73 · 20 hr. ago Colo-rectal Surgeon [34] YTA, people can be healthy without having a six pack, his body isn't yours to police and the idea that you are so shallow you're happier with him taking medication he is trying to get off of to make you happy, yikes.

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